Keep Remember and Wary

This phrase seems strange in English, but this is inspired by Javanese philosophy. In javanese language, it is said “Tansah Eling Lan Waspodo”. This phrase is often said by parents to their children, especially when their child far away from them or maybe when their children will go to somewhere.
Human can’t be separated from society, where inside the society, there are so many good manners, help each other, sacrifice, etc. Together with those, bad manners such as arrogant, greedy, and egoist also colorize the society in harmony. Battle between those manners can be found in our daily life. This is very natural, because all of those manners are our fate as human.
As a part of society, could we give scratching to this painting of life? what is the color we scratch? Is that scratching perfecting the harmony or precisely disturbing the harmony instead destroying the harmony?
Let’s muse the answer not in a rush.
Nowadays, we find so many incident and accident in our social life such as rape, (personal or gangster) bullying, corruption, and other phenomenons. And mostly we say it disturbs the harmony. I don’t ask if you do it, or ask you to be an agent of change. I just want to warn my self to keep remember and wary.
Remember that my family/my friends/my colleague/etc need me. Wary that there are so many temptations that can make me “out of track”.
Remember the answer from the question, “for what I live for?”. Wary that sometimes, people/things don’t like “undeviating person”.
Remember that I must keep patient, calm, and focus. Wary that sometimes, anger, ego, and another negative emotion try to take control over me.
Remember that there are so many people still in suffering. Wary that I can’t be conceit for what I have, I can, etc because there is a sky above a sky.
I think you, my friends, can add another “remember and wary”.
Let’s not yield to temptations.

“sabegjo-begjone wong kang begjo, isih luwih begjo wong kang tansah eling lan waspodo”
(how lucky a lucky person is, it is not luckier than a person who keeps remember and wary)

PS: I’m sorry for my bad english.

Filed under: Teh Manis

Heroes

This day is an important day for Indonesia and for me. First, this is Hime Day for me. And second, this is Heroes Day in Indonesia (called “Hari Pahlawan”).

Indonesia decided this day as Heroes Day bacause of heroic incident that happened in Surabaya on 10 November 1945. That day is deadline of ultimatum from Major General Mansergh(I don’t know the exact grade term, in Indonesia this grade called “Mayor Jenderal”) for all leader and Indonesian people that posses weapon to surrender. Mansergh was a substitute for Brigadir General Mallaby, England troop leader for East Java that was killed by Indonesian troop on October 30th 1945. This incident happened because Flag of Netherland was wavered in Yamato Hotel (Hotel Oranje) by Netherland army (NICA, Netherlands Indies Civil Administration). This action insulted Indonesian, so some of them torn the blue part of Netherland’s Flag to be only red and white, means Indonesia’s Flag. This triggered other incident between Indonesian troop vs Netherland troop in Surabaya then followed versus England troop and the peak incident was the death of Mallaby.

Mansergh’s Ultimatum was rejected by Indonesian because on that time, Republic of Indonesia was established since August 17th 1945 so no one can give that such ultimatum.
In the morning of November 10th 1945, England troop attack Surabaya with 30.000 men, 50 planes (including bombers), 24 Sherman tanks, and several war ships. Surabaya was attaced with so many boms. There was so many victims from Indonesian citizen but Indonesian troop never give up and then citizen helped too.

England estimated that they can conquer Surabaya in 3 days, but because of heroism of Indonesian people (one of them is Bung Tomo from Surabaya), it took long time until a month.
Surabaya was conquered because of difference of war technology.
In November 27th 1945, KNIP (Komite Nasional Indonesia Pusat) or Center National Comittee of Indonesia protested very very hard to top leader of England tropp in Indonesian for their action.
Surabaya’s war triggered so many wars in other places againts NICA and England troop. Because of their heroism and to remind of the victims so that day was decided as Heroes Day in Indonesia.

This day, I’m thinking about what that means for me. What is the meaning of “hero” for Indonesian people today.
I think, this is the right momment for me to “back on the right track”. I’ve done so many useless things, so his is the right time for me to act more effectively. I’ve wasted my time in some meaningless actions, so this is the right time to throw away that activities.
Related to the word “hero”, I think this is the right time to be hero for ****, an invisible hero. Hahahaha ) I think you know what I mean.

I also want to give “advice” to my leaders, “Please, show us real actions as we expected about you to make Indonesia better. We can help you to be heroes, but first, show us that you capable to.”

And you my friends, do you have a hero?
Or do you want to be a hero for someone?

Let’s think again about what the real meaning of “hero”.

PS: This acticle is not related to Heroes (TV Series). Hahahaha.

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Shoutbox in WordPress.Com

Is there anyone who knows how to add shoutbox in wordpress.com? (of course in free account)
I found that javascript code is not allowed in text widget (except from some trusted sites).
What “manipulation” that we can do for this case?

Filed under: Teh Canggih

Love is what?

It’s like fairy tale when you love someone who doesn’t know exactly what your true feeling. May be you don’t talk to her yet, or maybe you have some reasons too keep your feeling unsaid.

But sometimes, action talks louder than words. How hard you try to hide it, your action never lies. Your action often tell to the world that you love her. Although, maybe she doesn’t notice yet that it is love.
Now I’m asking you? Do you regret about that?
When she doesn’t know your true feeling?
When she doesn’t give you same treatment?

If your answer is yes, I think that is not love, but just an obsession to get her.

“Love is not a matter of take and give, but love is only a matter of Giving, without taking anything..”

Filed under: Teh Cinta